Get rid of private/locked videos unless you can prove you purchased them elsewhere or created them yourself.
This is annoying. Why should anyone have to friend someone in order to watch their stolen content from another site, just to have them deny your friend request ? In order to bypass this and receive an accepted friend request, you most likely have to have content of your own. Most people don't generate their own content, so a friend acceptance would be nearly impossible unless you play the game of stealing content.