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Please Ungroup the "Men" category from the "Gay" category

There are a lot of male users who upload vids like tribute videos. They get categorized under men, however the "men" category also gets grouped along side "gays". Every time I do a tribute video for a woman they flash nothing but ads of gay dudes going at it at the side. Also people automatically assume that because it's "Men" it's just another branch of the "Gay" section.

If you can make on category for Straight Men who want to upload vids, and one separate category for the Gay Men.

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  • Anonymous commented  ·   ·  Flag as inappropriate

    Exactly, you CAN'T force someone. Which is why you CAN'T force straight men to fall in line with wanting to list their material under "Gay only" category. It's extremely hypocritical.

    If the categories are about linking content to the "interested audience" then we should have NO Gay media on xhamster at all. There are plenty of gay sites you can go to, to have your gay porn.

    Finally the use of the word "homophobic" is just a microwave term used to brand someone whom you don't agree with. The same way some fool will call another person a "racist" or a "nazi" because they don't fall inline with their political ideology. The term isn't even used properly in it's own context. Phobia means intense irrational fear. People who have a rejection or no interest in your particular lifestyle are by no means irrationally afraid of you. They're just sick and tired of having that stuff set before them all the time.

    Because I'm not agreeing with your stealthy idea of gaying up straight men who post media to xhamster, it also doesn't mean I'm "doing a simple hate rant" either. Simply give the Straight men a category and the Gay men a category. Respect the boundaries of each and don't intrude. Gay men who claim they are born that way can watch the gay categorized media. Why do they need to visit the Straight men's media, unless they have a fantasy to "convert" the straight men somehow.

    A person's rights shouldn't end where you feelings begin.

  • I am against commented  ·   ·  Flag as inappropriate

    I know they expect women to watch that stuff instead of gays, but you can't force someone to be interested in your material. Categories are about linking content to the "interested audience", not "addressed audience" and the only group that might (I don't know) be interested in videos of men jacking off are gays, not women, who most certainly consider that kind of material repulsive.

    Fake women or couples profiles created by men, saying that they love to see tributes of their (stolen from the web) pictures, won't change that fact, don't be fooled by a bunch of fake profiles of gays who what to see your dick.

    And as for "straight men don't want to perform their exhibition for gays", I don't think you can claim such a homophobic statement in the name of the entire group of straight men of the site. I won't continue a debate that's not really about a technical improvement of the site but a simple hate rant.

  • Anonymous commented  ·   ·  Flag as inappropriate

    Men, normal men, straight men, don't want to perform their exhibition for gays. Case Closed. Gays have plenty of other very promiscuous gay men to display their sexuality to. Unfortunately the more flamboyant gays can never be pleased with what they have. Straight men are utterly repulsed at the idea of them being an object of desire for gay men or having gay men as an object of their desire.

    Also, not all straight male media on xhamster are "Tribute videos". It's just another lame excuse by extremist gays to somehow indoctrinate straight men into their "culture". Some men want to have a sexual outlet or joy of exploring their straight sexuality.

    Leave it on your side and respect our boundaries. What's so hard about that?

  • I am against commented  ·   ·  Flag as inappropriate

    99% of users of this site are men obsessed with their dicks and upload endless amounts of videos and pictures of them ("tributes" are just videos of you jacking of, you know?) convinced that such material will delight the female audience.. although only the gayest of gays are into that kind of stuff, and I'm not even sure anyone is into it.

    So I think the current design is the best, categories are meant to help users find what they're looking for, it has nothing to do with whom the uploader intended to address the content to.

    You like it or not, "straight women watching straight men porn" simply does not exist. There's "men and women watching girls porn" and "gay men watching men porn".

    Building the site against that reality will only push visitors away and still no woman is going to watch you jacking off.

  • Slideandglide commented  ·   ·  Flag as inappropriate

    I very strongly agree with this. My tribute vids are intended to be for the woman and other women who enjoy them and the category they get shoved into is pushing them to a different audience.

  • Anonymous commented  ·   ·  Flag as inappropriate

    I think its a brilliant idea. I'm not gay, Hi, or even curious. Yet my tribute video always appear surrounded by gay material. Maybe people don't even realise that there are straight men on xhamster, posting under "Men". Please introduce two separate categories: One for straight guys and one for gays.

  • bob commented  ·   ·  Flag as inappropriate

    Still tired of all these straight cum tributes which will never be separated out of the gay section, there will never be a straight cum tributes section. there is no fucking place to put it.

  • Aly commented  ·   ·  Flag as inappropriate

    Agree. Tired of seeing straight male wanks when I want to see gay videos.

  • Dyldom commented  ·   ·  Flag as inappropriate

    I totally agree with this, I have nothing against gays, but I don't want to be bombarded with ads for gay sites after watching a tribute video.

  • D Ragon commented  ·   ·  Flag as inappropriate

    I agree with you, far too many heterosexual videos are placed in the 'men' category. I feel that if xhamster wishes to pursue that course then the videos assigned to the 'men' category should not have any relation to the gay category, it should be a case of either or, not both.
    Another option would be to create a new category called 'gay men' then any heterosexual videos that they feel need to be assigned to the 'men' category can be and any homosexual videos fitting the requirements can go into the 'gay men' category, without any overlap between the two, what do you think?

  • Anonymous commented  ·   ·  Flag as inappropriate

    Thank you!! I'm really sick of seeing ads of hairy, sweaty guys fisting each other because the content I watch most is wrongly put in the "Gay" section.

  • Anonymous commented  ·   ·  Flag as inappropriate

    YES! Thank god someone else has picked up on this. I made a post about this just recently. ****xHamster TAKE NOTE****

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