We're talking about the male users here, not lesbians. Also all these are excuses you're making simply because you want to look at a straight man's stuff, even though straight guys want nothing to do with you. You just want to intrude somehow and be seen. And your persistent nagging and restrictions of other people is only making you look all the more annoying.
If you're so hell bent on having everything painted up gay, then why don't you just go to a site that specifically caters to gay media? Anyone content with what they are and who they are would not bother attempting to look into another niche not designed for them. UNDERSTAND? I don't go looking for gay porn. So then why would you go looking at Straight males? Simply because you want trouble.
"who would visit that "straight male media?"
Well who would want to see your gay shit all over the site if the gay population of the US is less than 5%? Why don't we just get rid of the Gay sections all together? You're only 5% of the population right? Why do we need set so much aside, (and in this case classify all male media under that title), if you're so small in number? We should only make xhamster for Straight males and women. It would make more sense. But why can't we? Because it's mean, intrusive to your rights, disrespectful to you? Well in that case, put your money where your mouth is and leave us straight guys alone.
You're no one to tell people what they can or can't do. Period. Basically what you want is to literally brand all male users on xhamster as "Gay" even if they aren't. File them all in the same category without the male users to have any choice of their own. And finally to strip them of their freedom to use the site for their own private media.
You're also missing the point, Gays who have their own section and perhaps their own near limitless media won't bother going to a Straight Male section.....UNLESS you're actually looking to stir stuff up, cause trouble, and believe you can somehow "convert" Straight men. The latter would really contradict your notions of "being born this way" wouldn't it?
How about this, instead of whining on how the site should cater only to gays and ignore everyone else, why don't you simply keep your media in your niche, have your own niche, and let other niches have theirs. Simple as that.
And as before I have already addressed much of the stuff you're still redundantly and repetitively arguing about. Cease attempting to gain only an answer you want.
Ehh, don't you dare. Because you are a complete hypocrite. "Hey world cater to us gays all the time but I don't think straight men should have their own separate venue". You don't get it through your head. KEEP IT ON YOUR SIDE. Stop trying to sneakily incorporate straight men into your camp.
If no people are watching my own muscle flexing video, then so be it. I'd rather that, than it be labeled as gay and placed under the gay media tab. You gays have YOUR OWN gay media on xhamster and it's quite full. So why don't you stay with your own camp and gay media and enjoy it. If you people were really live and let live types you wouldn't be so hell bent on trying to get the straight male media filed under gay.
WE ARE NOT GAY. Understand? No? Let me say it again. WE ARE NOT GAY.
Yeah this isn't a forum discussing gender studies so stop trying to steer the argument into stuff like calling everyone whom you don't agree with a "homophobe". So because straight men don't want their videos filed under your gay category, that makes them homophobes? Grow up.
As for this comment:
"And having a category for men and a different one for gay would mean pushing men pictures in the face of every visitor, who are most certainly looking for something else."
No it certainly wouldn't because if you hadn't noticed xhamster allows for specified search. A user can uncheck things like Transexual and Gay if they don't want Tranny and Gay findings in their search results. Any idiot knows that. And for the most part the kinds of stuff placed on xhamster's face value tends to be regular porn.
Understand something about us Straight Men, we're not very "Fabulous" and nor do we care to be. We don't desire to have our videos on the front page of xhamster. What we want however is that when we make our Straight Male media that it not be automatically filed under "Gay". Because we're not gay. We don't care though if our media doesn't make 5 million views.
As for the showcase frame at the bottom displaying related pictures, don't worry about it. Another thing about us Straight Guys is that we don't need to look at each other's stuff. It don't matter what's at the bottom of the related pics tab, we don't check it out.
But we find it really freaking irritating that when we upload media we see an advertisement vid of two queers getting it on in all of it's disgusting glory. I don't want to see that.
So the developers would have two choices:
A: To create a "Men" category and make sure there's no run off in other places. The Result? Straight men are comfortable uploading once again. Our media can be housed in our section. The Gays have their own gay section to play with. And the regular Straight porn/amateur porn will remain the same untouched by the other niches. Simple as that. Everyone is happy.
But then there's plan B, your way: Give the Gays what they want, but leave the straight men out to dry and having to put up with gay shit.
The answer to B is Hell No.
And please stop with the "women don't like men excuse". You're clearly gay. What goes on with men and women is clearly none of your concern. Worry about your own community.
What on earth are you talking about Swallow? Your victimization complex knows no boundaries. And it goes to the point that you start making up accusations whenever someone opposes your despotic "make the world gay" idealism.
Did you even bother to read my previous comments. NOT ALL STRAIGHT MALE MEDIA ARE TRIBUTE VIDEOS. Understand now. And even if it was, straight men still should have the right to not have it automatically thrown in the pile of "Gay" videos. Clearly the dudes making such videos are NOT gay and certainly don't care for someone labeling their stuff as gay. Ok? Clear enough for now?
Stop attempting to make comparisons or analogies with what females like. Men do not work like women. We are often offended and angered when gay men attempt to make sexual flirtations with us. As such an approach is an insult to our masculinity. Why, if your ilk is so confident in being what they are, that they need to have the straight male majority bunched in with them?
Why can't you leave us to our preferences as you demand society leaves you to yours? Don't you have plenty of gay media categories specifically for gays, made by gays, featuring gays to make you happy?
Leave us be.
Phobia: a type of anxiety disorder, usually defined as a persistent fear of an object or situation in which the sufferer commits to great lengths in avoiding, typically disproportional to the actual danger posed, often being recognized as irrational.
That is the literal meaning of the word. As for the etymology it comes from the greek Phobos which also means extreme fear or terror.
Exactly, you CAN'T force someone. Which is why you CAN'T force straight men to fall in line with wanting to list their material under "Gay only" category. It's extremely hypocritical.
If the categories are about linking content to the "interested audience" then we should have NO Gay media on xhamster at all. There are plenty of gay sites you can go to, to have your gay porn.
Finally the use of the word "homophobic" is just a microwave term used to brand someone whom you don't agree with. The same way some fool will call another person a "racist" or a "nazi" because they don't fall inline with their political ideology. The term isn't even used properly in it's own context. Phobia means intense irrational fear. People who have a rejection or no interest in your particular lifestyle are by no means irrationally afraid of you. They're just sick and tired of having that stuff set before them all the time.
Because I'm not agreeing with your stealthy idea of gaying up straight men who post media to xhamster, it also doesn't mean I'm "doing a simple hate rant" either. Simply give the Straight men a category and the Gay men a category. Respect the boundaries of each and don't intrude. Gay men who claim they are born that way can watch the gay categorized media. Why do they need to visit the Straight men's media, unless they have a fantasy to "convert" the straight men somehow.
A person's rights shouldn't end where you feelings begin.
Men, normal men, straight men, don't want to perform their exhibition for gays. Case Closed. Gays have plenty of other very promiscuous gay men to display their sexuality to. Unfortunately the more flamboyant gays can never be pleased with what they have. Straight men are utterly repulsed at the idea of them being an object of desire for gay men or having gay men as an object of their desire.
Also, not all straight male media on xhamster are "Tribute videos". It's just another lame excuse by extremist gays to somehow indoctrinate straight men into their "culture". Some men want to have a sexual outlet or joy of exploring their straight sexuality.
Leave it on your side and respect our boundaries. What's so hard about that?
This is a good idea. It would be nice to not reach a friendship limit. There a lot of popular and professional profiles on xhamster that unfortunately reach a friend limit too soon.
How is limiting the maximum friends to 200 supposed to weed out spammers? It's easy to tell if a profile is a spammer. If you find one, just refuse the friend request.Anonymous supported this idea ·